Nigeria top Matchmaker,Lara Kudayisi shocked many over the weekend when she stepped on stage at a self-development, conference in Lagos and told the audience that during her teenage years she had a child, got 14 heartbreaks from different men and worst still ,she had 15 whooping abortions.Although many were shocked, it wasn't the first time the lady has told the story of her 'ugly' past.She wrote;
"Yes, you heard me right. I have said it times without number and I will continue to say it.Child at 19, 14 heartbreaks and 15 abortions. It is my story and my experience .I own my experience. You must own your experience and self-aware".
According to Lara who is now married to the love of her life and now uses her past as a drive to inspire other women, when she first made the confession on Facebook years back, some of her followers were shocked but as the time went people began understanding her viewpoints and infact, she now gets paid by people who wants to learn from her experience.
Better known by the monicker, "The Match-making Mistress", Lara who spoke at the My Double Double Conference organized by renowned self-development expert, Paul Kayode Josh, at Muson Centre Lagos,made it clear that her mission is to inspire everyone to achieving their life purposes no matter what mistakes they might have made in life.
Sunday, 26 November 2017
Saturday, 25 November 2017
LAGOS STATE POLYTECHNIC (LASPOTECH) HOLDS ORIENTATION PROGRAMME FOR FRESHLY ADMITTED PART-TIME STUDENTS.
Lagos State Polytechnic held her 2017/2018 orientation programmes for the newly admitted students in the school of Part-time Studies on Thursday,23rd of November,2017.The student Orientation program is basically to orient the newly admitted students on the rules and regulations of the school and varieties of events that takes place in the school.
Students from various departments of the school were assembled in the 700-seater hall of the Polytechnic.The Director of the School of Part Times Studies addressed the students making them understand that the Polytechnic of excellence would not tolerate any form of indiscipline from any student.
She urged the students to always call the attention of the School Management if a lecturer missed his or her lecture mainly stating that there shouldn't be hidden affairs or relationships between Lecturers and students.She also stated that Textbooks that are not authorised by the department shouldn't be sold or patronised by students.
The Assistant Director of the School of Part-Time Studies laid emphasis more on Educational Malpractice stating that the Institution does not accept any form of plea after being engaged in any form of malpractices whatsoever rather such person will be dismissed or suspended from the institution.He made the students understand that Lecturers do not take bribe from students to pass Examination and if caught with such act, the penalty is DISMISSAL.
Lagos State Polytechnic Chief Security Officer addressed the students, making them understanding the proper and decent dressing mode of the institution.He stated that indecent dressing, illicit acts, cultism and defiant behaviour are not tolerated.Such person who engage in such acts will face the school panels and be dealt with accordingly before being rusticated.
Other dignitaries present at the orientation are coordinators from the various departments,the School's auditor, and the SPTSE Chairman who were all introduced to the new students through the assistant director's for recognition.
Students from various departments of the school were assembled in the 700-seater hall of the Polytechnic.The Director of the School of Part Times Studies addressed the students making them understand that the Polytechnic of excellence would not tolerate any form of indiscipline from any student.
She urged the students to always call the attention of the School Management if a lecturer missed his or her lecture mainly stating that there shouldn't be hidden affairs or relationships between Lecturers and students.She also stated that Textbooks that are not authorised by the department shouldn't be sold or patronised by students.
The Assistant Director of the School of Part-Time Studies laid emphasis more on Educational Malpractice stating that the Institution does not accept any form of plea after being engaged in any form of malpractices whatsoever rather such person will be dismissed or suspended from the institution.He made the students understand that Lecturers do not take bribe from students to pass Examination and if caught with such act, the penalty is DISMISSAL.
Lagos State Polytechnic Chief Security Officer addressed the students, making them understanding the proper and decent dressing mode of the institution.He stated that indecent dressing, illicit acts, cultism and defiant behaviour are not tolerated.Such person who engage in such acts will face the school panels and be dealt with accordingly before being rusticated.
Other dignitaries present at the orientation are coordinators from the various departments,the School's auditor, and the SPTSE Chairman who were all introduced to the new students through the assistant director's for recognition.
Wednesday, 22 November 2017
65-YRS-OLD FATHER OF THREE,ABDUCTS,SODOMIZES 15-YRS-OLD BOY FOR ONE YEAR
A 65 years old man,Patrick Kalu has been arrested by the Niger State Police Command for allegedly having anal sex with a 15 years old boy.
The suspect who resides at Railway Quarters in Minna,abducted the teenager and kept him in his house for over a year assaulting him on a daily basis.He abducted the victim from Marino area of Abuja under the pretence of securing a job for him in Minna,he locked him up in his house and started sodomizing him.
Kanu admitted having canal knowledge of the teenage boy attributing it to the handwork of the devil.When asked how he managed to keep the boy in his house without the knowledge of anybody,Kalu said although he has three children from his late wife ,he lives alone at the Railway Quarters adding that he ha to threaten the victim to stop him from escaping and each time he leaves the house, he makes sure that he locks the doors and the window.
Kalu said, "I was doing it for pleasure. I started having the urge to sleep with little boys in my late 50s and now it has ruined my entire life.Its is evil.I pray that my children and my community will forgive me.I don't deserve mercy at all, let the law take its course; I am stupid, honestly. I don't know what came over me; each time I see small boys, I would be tempted to have sexual intercourse with them. I don't know whether it is a curse placed on me. I usually entice my victims with money.
The Police Public Relations Officer, Abigail Unaeze, said that police detectives arrested Kalu based on reliable information adding that he has confessed to the crime and would soon be charged to court.
The suspect who resides at Railway Quarters in Minna,abducted the teenager and kept him in his house for over a year assaulting him on a daily basis.He abducted the victim from Marino area of Abuja under the pretence of securing a job for him in Minna,he locked him up in his house and started sodomizing him.
Kanu admitted having canal knowledge of the teenage boy attributing it to the handwork of the devil.When asked how he managed to keep the boy in his house without the knowledge of anybody,Kalu said although he has three children from his late wife ,he lives alone at the Railway Quarters adding that he ha to threaten the victim to stop him from escaping and each time he leaves the house, he makes sure that he locks the doors and the window.
Kalu said, "I was doing it for pleasure. I started having the urge to sleep with little boys in my late 50s and now it has ruined my entire life.Its is evil.I pray that my children and my community will forgive me.I don't deserve mercy at all, let the law take its course; I am stupid, honestly. I don't know what came over me; each time I see small boys, I would be tempted to have sexual intercourse with them. I don't know whether it is a curse placed on me. I usually entice my victims with money.
The Police Public Relations Officer, Abigail Unaeze, said that police detectives arrested Kalu based on reliable information adding that he has confessed to the crime and would soon be charged to court.
Tuesday, 21 November 2017
EXCLUSIVE UPDATE: BURNA BOY IS YET TO HONOUR POLICE INVITATION ,POLICE THINKS HE IS ON THE RUN.
Lagos State police command has refute claims by Burna Boy's management that he has honoured the police investigation issued yesterday November 20th. Recall that the Lagos state police commissioner ,Edgar Inmohimi, at a press conference in the command headquarters yesterday,said that Burna Boy is a person of interest in the on-going investigation into Mr 2kay's robbery attack at Eko Hotel last month.
The commissioner publicly announced that Burna Boy should immediately report to the nearest police station for questioning as he has being named by arrested suspects as the mastermind of the alleged crime.
Reacting to the news ,Burna Boy's management released a statement this evening claiming that he has honoured the police invitation.Parts of the statement reads:
"The first and only invitation Burna Boy has ever received from then police was issued yesterday November 20th,2017.This invitation was honoured yesterday and it has being made clear that he is happy to cooperate with the police as best as he can. It is pertinent to note that he was never served an arrest warrant nor has he being declared wanted."
However,when Linda Ikeji Blog reached out to confirm this, the spokesperson of the Lagos State police command,Olarinda Famous-Cole,said it was only Burna Boy's father,Samuel Ogulu,that came to the station yesterday after the press congress with claims that he,Burna Boy's not in the country and as soon as he arrives in the country and as soon as he arrives in Nigeria ,he could come over to the command's headquarters.Olarinde,however,says that the state police command believes that they do not believe his father's claim that he is out of the country.
The robbery suspects that attacked Mr 2Kay in Eko hotel have confessed to the police that Burns Boy paid them N100000 to attack Mr 2kay and teach him a lesson.
The commissioner publicly announced that Burna Boy should immediately report to the nearest police station for questioning as he has being named by arrested suspects as the mastermind of the alleged crime.
Reacting to the news ,Burna Boy's management released a statement this evening claiming that he has honoured the police invitation.Parts of the statement reads:
"The first and only invitation Burna Boy has ever received from then police was issued yesterday November 20th,2017.This invitation was honoured yesterday and it has being made clear that he is happy to cooperate with the police as best as he can. It is pertinent to note that he was never served an arrest warrant nor has he being declared wanted."
However,when Linda Ikeji Blog reached out to confirm this, the spokesperson of the Lagos State police command,Olarinda Famous-Cole,said it was only Burna Boy's father,Samuel Ogulu,that came to the station yesterday after the press congress with claims that he,Burna Boy's not in the country and as soon as he arrives in the country and as soon as he arrives in Nigeria ,he could come over to the command's headquarters.Olarinde,however,says that the state police command believes that they do not believe his father's claim that he is out of the country.
The robbery suspects that attacked Mr 2Kay in Eko hotel have confessed to the police that Burns Boy paid them N100000 to attack Mr 2kay and teach him a lesson.
Monday, 20 November 2017
BANKY W AND ADESUA HOLD SECRET COURT WEDDING.
Nigerian R&B singer,Bankole Wellington,popularly known as Banky W and his sweetheart,beautiful Nollywood actress,Adesua Etomi,today held a secret court wedding in an unknown location.The news of the court wedding went vir,l after photos of duo surfaced online, showing some court officials and family members.
The couple had a grand wedding on Sunday in Benin city, attended by the cream de la cream of the entertainment industry, some of whom include Bovi, Basket Mouth, Kemi Adetiba, Tunde Demuren, Chigul, Lynxx, Juliet Ibrahim, M.I, Dotun Kayode, Tolu 'Toolz' Oniru, Linda Ejiofor, and Sola Sobowale.
The court wedding is said to be the second out of the three phases of their wedding,and the white wedding is rumored to hold next in Cape Town, South Africa. Banky W proposed to Adesua in February and barely five days after the announcement of their engagement, the couples held their intoduction.
The couple had a grand wedding on Sunday in Benin city, attended by the cream de la cream of the entertainment industry, some of whom include Bovi, Basket Mouth, Kemi Adetiba, Tunde Demuren, Chigul, Lynxx, Juliet Ibrahim, M.I, Dotun Kayode, Tolu 'Toolz' Oniru, Linda Ejiofor, and Sola Sobowale.
The court wedding is said to be the second out of the three phases of their wedding,and the white wedding is rumored to hold next in Cape Town, South Africa. Banky W proposed to Adesua in February and barely five days after the announcement of their engagement, the couples held their intoduction.
I USED TO TAKE CODEINE,OTHER HARD DRUGS.I COULDN'T BOAST OF ONE MILLION NAIRA IN 2016-TOYIN ABRAHAM
Actress Toyin Abraham has opened up on her past when she abused hard drugs like marijuana and codeine, and was involved in other vices. She made the disclosure at the 2017 edition of success story Africa.
"You need to stop bad habits. I was involved in a lot of vices and it became worse last year.I did drugs and I am not afraid to say it because it's now a thing of the past." PremiumTimes quoted her saying at the event.
"They say codeine makes you high;I took a lot. I smoked a lot and I didn't even know I looked horrible,because I was so skinny. If you came to my house last year, you would meet a lot of people and you won't want to leave because we smoked ,gossiped about people and what have you."
According to PremiumTimes,she also talked about the mistakes she made in the entertainment industry and how she has not let the negativity shape her. "I made a lot of mistakes when I started acting and that was because I did not have plans. I just wanted to be known.
'I now know that being popular isn't the same as being successful. When I got into the industry and the fame became too much,I became irresponsible. I could not boast of 1million Naira in 2016.I was making money and wanted to feel among.When one of our colleagues bought a car,It was trouble because we all strove to buy the same car or a bigger one. I had to change my circle for good and this change started in March 2017.
"You need to stop bad habits. I was involved in a lot of vices and it became worse last year.I did drugs and I am not afraid to say it because it's now a thing of the past." PremiumTimes quoted her saying at the event.
"They say codeine makes you high;I took a lot. I smoked a lot and I didn't even know I looked horrible,because I was so skinny. If you came to my house last year, you would meet a lot of people and you won't want to leave because we smoked ,gossiped about people and what have you."
According to PremiumTimes,she also talked about the mistakes she made in the entertainment industry and how she has not let the negativity shape her. "I made a lot of mistakes when I started acting and that was because I did not have plans. I just wanted to be known.
'I now know that being popular isn't the same as being successful. When I got into the industry and the fame became too much,I became irresponsible. I could not boast of 1million Naira in 2016.I was making money and wanted to feel among.When one of our colleagues bought a car,It was trouble because we all strove to buy the same car or a bigger one. I had to change my circle for good and this change started in March 2017.
ESE ERIATA'S INSPIRING POST ON THE COMPLICATIONS OF LOVE AND MARRIAGE.
Fake BBNaija housemate has just discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship and she shared that in a lengthy post on Instagram.
The former face of Candy City went further to explain that it takes commitment and hard work to build relationships and relationships cannot be ready made.
She Wrote:
'I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success the success of a relationship.Love cannot help stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. Infact,loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart.It works out because of our emotional maturity,empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you will see more beautiful,handsome,romantic,intelligent,sexy,rich,curvy and God-fearing people than the one you are in a relationship with.In those times, love will not help you; self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you are committed to will rank first in your life.
You think happily married people don't meet better people than the once they married?You think they don't feel funny sometimes?They do!
But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.You can fall in love with anyone,but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.We are too fond of loving when its convenient and sweet.We are too fond of loving when love is there but can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realise that the feelings has dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it work, not Love's responsibility.Relationships cannot be readymade.You have to build it and its never always about love,It requires commitment and intelligence. On the long run in marriages, but it's not just love that keeps them together forever,it's determination and commitment. Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort do that. But staying in love?Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that. That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.Building a relationship is hardworking!!!'
The former face of Candy City went further to explain that it takes commitment and hard work to build relationships and relationships cannot be ready made.
She Wrote:
'I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success the success of a relationship.Love cannot help stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. Infact,loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart.It works out because of our emotional maturity,empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you will see more beautiful,handsome,romantic,intelligent,sexy,rich,curvy and God-fearing people than the one you are in a relationship with.In those times, love will not help you; self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you are committed to will rank first in your life.
You think happily married people don't meet better people than the once they married?You think they don't feel funny sometimes?They do!
But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.You can fall in love with anyone,but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.We are too fond of loving when its convenient and sweet.We are too fond of loving when love is there but can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realise that the feelings has dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it work, not Love's responsibility.Relationships cannot be readymade.You have to build it and its never always about love,It requires commitment and intelligence. On the long run in marriages, but it's not just love that keeps them together forever,it's determination and commitment. Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort do that. But staying in love?Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that. That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.Building a relationship is hardworking!!!'
POLICE NAB STUDENT OVER ATTEMPT TO USE HIS FATHER,2 SIBLINGS,4 FRIENDS FOR RITUAL.
A 26 years old student has being arrested by police over alleged attempt to sacrifice his father, two siblings, and four of his friends in Ifite-Awka,Anambra State.
The suspect, Chukwuemeka Okafor,was said to have obtained the sum of N100,000 from his father under the pretence of using it to set up a business.
Confessing to the crime, the suspect said he was roped into the act after he was defrauded of N400,000 by one of his friends who had promised to take him to Dubai.
'Amidst these frustrations,I sought for the assistance of one Zaki who is very influential in the society and he told me that he made his money through money ritual.He insisted I must join him after revealing the secret, saying he was warned not to disclose such secrets to anybody otherwise his life would be terminated.'
The suspect,who said he had no option but to join, produced the pictures of his father, two siblings and four of his friends which he downloaded and printed from his Facebook page.He said he regretted the act, blaming it on the impoverished condition of the family.
Parading the suspect, Commissioner of police,Garba Umar,said the father had innocently provided the said sum to the suspect without knowing that the money would be used to settle the 'native doctor' to elimimate him.
He said the suspect was assisting the police with useful information for further investigation,after which he would be charged to court for prosecution.The father of his suspect,Kenneth Okafor,a retired civil servant, and his elder brother ,Henry Okafor, had pleaded that he should be forgiven, describing him as a good boy and the hope of the family.
The suspect, Chukwuemeka Okafor,was said to have obtained the sum of N100,000 from his father under the pretence of using it to set up a business.
Confessing to the crime, the suspect said he was roped into the act after he was defrauded of N400,000 by one of his friends who had promised to take him to Dubai.
'Amidst these frustrations,I sought for the assistance of one Zaki who is very influential in the society and he told me that he made his money through money ritual.He insisted I must join him after revealing the secret, saying he was warned not to disclose such secrets to anybody otherwise his life would be terminated.'
The suspect,who said he had no option but to join, produced the pictures of his father, two siblings and four of his friends which he downloaded and printed from his Facebook page.He said he regretted the act, blaming it on the impoverished condition of the family.
Parading the suspect, Commissioner of police,Garba Umar,said the father had innocently provided the said sum to the suspect without knowing that the money would be used to settle the 'native doctor' to elimimate him.
He said the suspect was assisting the police with useful information for further investigation,after which he would be charged to court for prosecution.The father of his suspect,Kenneth Okafor,a retired civil servant, and his elder brother ,Henry Okafor, had pleaded that he should be forgiven, describing him as a good boy and the hope of the family.
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