Fake BBNaija housemate has just discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship and she shared that in a lengthy post on Instagram.
The former face of Candy City went further to explain that it takes commitment and hard work to build relationships and relationships cannot be ready made.
She Wrote:
'I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success the success of a relationship.Love cannot help stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. Infact,loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart.It works out because of our emotional maturity,empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you will see more beautiful,handsome,romantic,intelligent,sexy,rich,curvy and God-fearing people than the one you are in a relationship with.In those times, love will not help you; self control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you are committed to will rank first in your life.
You think happily married people don't meet better people than the once they married?You think they don't feel funny sometimes?They do!
But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.You can fall in love with anyone,but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.We are too fond of loving when its convenient and sweet.We are too fond of loving when love is there but can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realise that the feelings has dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it work, not Love's responsibility.Relationships cannot be readymade.You have to build it and its never always about love,It requires commitment and intelligence. On the long run in marriages, but it's not just love that keeps them together forever,it's determination and commitment. Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort do that. But staying in love?Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that. That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.Building a relationship is hardworking!!!'
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